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By Caron Goode

Guided Imagery

Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. Goethe

Parents, teachers, caregivers, and other service providers can assist children to direct their imaginations for greater awareness of their health and wholeness. Guided imagery is a dynamic way to increase a child's chances for successful development of inner talents and personal resources. Parents, teachers, and other service providers can use imagery with confidence to increase a child's mental focus, help clarify values, increase study efficiency, or instill other successful traits.

What Is Guided Imagery
 

Imagery is the ability to visualize or mentally create pictures and feelings. You can use this technique to empower children's success, joy and balance the same way an athlete envisions winning. Earlier chapters showed you that thoughts and feelings are not separate from each other. A thought triggers a biochemical response in your body. A feeling or sensation triggers a corresponding chemical response in the brain. Imagery lets children empower their awareness and direct their mind/ body into skill development and positive emotional states.

Mindbody science has shown us that thinking about running a race can trigger the same bodily feelings as the physical act of running. Obviously running the race gives you the elation, physical exercise and tension release. What imaging the race before hand can do for you and children is set the stage by focusing specific goals and preparing the physical body. In the same way, imaging successful coping skills can empower your intention of joy and anchor triumph in your body.

Guided imagery is the method of creating pictures in the mind accompanied by sights, sounds, sensations and feelings. It directs the mind and body to the optimal inner state for physical and emotional healing. Positive images specifically calm the nervous system, strengthen the immune system, and trigger healing activity.

When we daydream, we allow our minds to free-flow to places where we want to be, or to spaces that bring us feelings of joy, comfort, safety and peace. Guided Imagery helps us reach these places when we feel the need to be there, like during times of stress and frustration, childhood's nightmares, trauma or abuse memories, or just to relieve general tension.

View imagery as daydreaming with a purpose. Help children use their imaginations to see a picture in their mind. Imagery stimulates the children's senses to make their participation more real and active by adding the props.

How Effective Is Imagery?
Health field specialists use guided imagery to reconnect people to pastoral, peaceful images with accompanying sights, tastes, smells and feelings. This produces a relaxation response and strengthens the immune system. Specifically with cancer patients, successful imagery gives back to patients a measure of control, enhancing their immunologic response to stress, and diminishing anxiety and fear about treatments.

Guided imagery helps children of all ages build confidence and self-esteem and strengthen their resources. Children can learn to express feelings they are generally unable to verbalize [especially associated with stress or trauma]. Imagery has been useful in particular for

  • Calming hyperactivity,
  • Helping children cope with a death in the family,
  • Overcoming anxiety,
  • Soothing panic episodes,
  • Healing psychosomatic complaints, and
  • Developing sensitivity.
  • The reason for this success lies in a children's ability to close their eyes and use the imagination to see another viewpoint, feel more deeply, or gain perspective on the overall situation. (To learn more, purchase: Nurture Your Child's Gift )

About The Author ...

Caron Goode's (EdD) insights are drawn from her fifteen years in private psychotherapy practice and thirty years of experience in the fields of education, personal empowerment, and health and wellness. She is the author of eight books (www.inspiredparenting.net ) and the founder of the Academy for Coaching Parents,(www.acpi.biz) a training program for parents & professionals who wish to mentor other parents. A mom and step-mom, she and her husband live in Whitney, Texas. Reach her at caronbgoode@inspiredparenting.net.

   
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